Friday, 7 December 2007
yes, we are still here
Where do I start? I still haven't learned Italian even though I only have one week left of classes and I've been doing some tutoring. I locked Julia in the car with the keys (don't ask). It was freezing outside when I did this and I didn't have on my jacket.
Julia turned one in spite of me doing this. We had an awesome birthday party for her.
We traveled to the magical city of Salzburg for T'giving. Jacqueline ice skated in Salzburg for the first time! She was frightened and loved it all at the same time. We are almost done unpacking. We've all gotten the terrible stomach flu that is making the rounds (and some in our household twice). Jacqueline threw-up all over the club as we walked in for T'giving dinner. Pleasant.
The Christmas lights here are beautiful and they put their Christmas trees on their porch.
Jacqueline saw Santa arrive on a F-16. She got to run out to meet him and then he walked in holding her hand - awww!
I've thrown a baby shower and Michael turned the big one. Whew! I'm tired.
I think the hardest thing about living in Italy is that you live in Italy. You have one foot in being a tourist b/c you know your time here is limited, but you also have to create a life here. I am settling into the rhythm - greeting the shop keepers and planning my day around reposo. I still live in the car and it's a little cool now to be walking around. The farmers are almost done plowing under their corn crops and a whole new landscape has emerged.
They also take pride in making things beautiful. I went with the Officer Spouses group to the beautiful town of Spilimbergo (http://www.scuolamosaicistifriuli.it/en/gallery/default.asp) to the mosaic school. I love love love mosaics and this 3 year school is amazing and one of the best in the world. We saw the students in action: tediously chipping the stone into the same size piece for each body of work. It is one of the best "art gallery" tours I have ever done. I would never have the patience to work on project like they do. If you visit, put the school on your list as it is only 35 minutes from the house. We also had a delicious lunch with pumpkin ravioli , leek risotto and veal (and the wine was terrific as usual). I sat at the bad girl table b/c we got "in trouble" for shopping on the way to lunch. I saw a floral shop that had flower bulbs and I wanted one to show Jacqueline the flower blooming. Well, I didn't know it would be such a production. It was in a small white plastic pot for 2 euro. I took it inside and she whipped out the hot glue gun and attached 4 large green leaves then wrapped ribbon around the leaves and then adhered a ladybug to where the knot was. I was just standing there with my mouth hanging open b/c all I wanted was the bulb! My g'friend then proceeded to buy Christmas lights at the hardware store next door (as we can't use ours).
By the way, the bulb is starting to bloom!
Saturday, 10 November 2007
Tragedy at Aviano
As Jacqueline and I danced and watched the twinkling city lights below last night, I was reminded once again of the fragility of life and how blessed we are.
Sunday, 4 November 2007
Halloween and lights
Jacqueline chose to be a mermaid and picked out the octupus for Julia. Michael was still TDY so he missed out.
The night prior to Halloween, I was cooking dinner and moved the crockpot (we only have one plug in our kitchen) and the electricity went out. I went to the garage to get it back on, but failed. I then went over to my g'friends house to call Michael with the girls in the pouring rain. My cell phone didn't work; I couldn't drive b/c the electric gate didn't open; and, the house phone was obviously not working. As I was going over there I saw my landlord and waved him down, but of course, I couldn't tell him what was wrong (I haven't learned "the lights are out" in my Italian class). He did go over to the house, but he couldn't get them back on either.
Michael walks in the door, unplugs the crockpot and the lights come back on. Ahh. Life in Italy!
Jacqueline likes to open the window on our stairwell and yell "buono giornio" to our neighbors. Today, she did it NAKED.
We went to a wine tasting with one of the fighter squadrons this weekend south of Udine. Terrific wine! See, it all comes back to that.
Sunday, 28 October 2007
Look who is crawling!
Thursday, 25 October 2007
Nothing much
Our stuff finally came on Thursday. It has been so nice sleeping on my bed. We still can't find any screws to put the crib, etc. together. Filing a claim will be interesting for screws. I also made it to Ikea yesterday. I need to get some lights and long drapes. I struck out on both those items, but oh well. It was a fun trip.
My nephew should be here today! YEAH. Mom is doing great.
This past spring I got to have dinner with the Aviano Reunion Group. I laughed when they told me the hardest thing at Aviano is deciding where to go on your next trip. It is indeed true as we can't decide where to go for the T'giving holiday! Vienna or Salzburg. It is also someones very BIG birthday and our anniversary so... Any votes?
Saturday, 20 October 2007
Tutus and Tiaras
I didn't tell JD our things had come. She was so thrilled when she saw her toys especially her costumes. She wore her ballet outfit the rest of the day with the tiara and shoes. She insisted in sleeping in it, but I successfully convinced her that princesses don't sleep in their tiaras.
I love going to the Italian markets. It is delightful watching the daily life of the people here. It is one way for us Americans to break out of our ease of shopping on base etc. I went with some friends on Friday to one of the bigger ones in Congeliano (not sure if the spelling is right). I learned how to order a coffee "to go." I bought JD some cute mittens and a hat for JL. I also get flowers once a month at the market and they had many beautiful ones to choose from. We were in the food stalls and one of the vendors tried to sell us a skate. ICK. Squid was everywhere. I am just not there yet.
Early in the week I went to a dinner with some friends at a woman's house who owns a wine shop in Sacile. She hosts private dinners in her home for ten + people. It was wonderful. She served us the best Prosecco and red wine. We had bruschetta and cheese for our appetizer, bean soup for our primi course, game hen for our secondi and a wonderful dessert (I still have no idea what it was). YUM. She had the roaring fire going, which greatly added to the atmosphere.
Wednesday, 17 October 2007
MEN!
Jacqueline loves to get the car washed so yesterday I made my first foray into washing the car over here. I went to our local Agip station b/c I love the little old man that pumps my gas (yes, I'll be missing full service when we move back). I drove up to the car wash and put my money in, but it kept on coming back. I tried a couple of more times, but it just kept rolling back out. I went over to the sweet guy and he made me pull my car into the washer (now the car washer is out in the open with rollers and all - just a steel structure) then put my money in. Holy smokes it stayed in the coin collector. You also have to stay out of the car so JD and I sat on the curb and watched the car get clean. Julia did stay in the car asleep. All of a sudden the dryer went on and I picked up JD and threw her in the car and I drove up under the dryer. Well, I finally realized I didn't have to do that as the dryer goes to your car. I turned around and the sweet little man and his friends were laughing at me. Lesson learned. I do have to admit, it was pretty funny.
Tuesday, 16 October 2007
Saturday, 13 October 2007
Trieste - Saturday the 13th
wine tasting
http://www.palazzodattimismaniago.com/ita/index.php This is where we had dinner and the tasting. The dinner was quite yummy with two appetizers then pumpkin gnocchi, pork, and green apple gelato for dessert. I met some more terrific people!
Friday, 12 October 2007
1st and definitely not the last trip to Venice
We found the Sacile train station after not listening to our nav (we haven't figured out all the quirks of it yet so it tells you to turn when there is no turn). We hopped on the train for the hour train ride to Venice. We were the only Americans in our car. These young (20ish) kids were sitting across the aisle from us. I just wanted to giggle the whole trip. No American 20 yr old man would be caught dead in what they were wearing, and I know they thought (and by Italian definition they did) they looked cool. They were wearing huge sunglasses, black shirts and white pants (tight not baggy) with spiky hair. The girls were wearing their Dolce and Gabbana big belt buckles. I guess everyone from the surrounding area goes into Venice for a day too.
The train drops you off in Venice so it was terrific. We saw the long lines at the vaporetto station so we decided to keep moving forward and walk. We encountered our first of many bridges making this city very unfriendly for strollers. We felt we had to bring it in case JD wanted to nap. We won't bring it again as it was a pain in the rear end (I'd love to say another word b/c that's exactly what it was, but I'll be polite).
Venice seemed small at first. It's dirty, but I reminded myself it is old and sinking. Also, many of the residents have moved out and the apartments are owned by people who occasionally vacation there. Graffiti was everywhere and it was terribly CROWDED. We didn't have our map out as we were too busy trying to carry our stroller. Michael kept asking me if I knew where I was going, but I didn't, of course . I just followed the crowd as I thought someone in it would know where we all were going.
We eventually broke away from the crowd when jd spotted some cookies outside a church! Well, mass had just let out and they were having their fellowship hour. The people kept giving jd cookies and chips with a coke to top it off. Boy, that nap won't be likely now. In true Italian style, they also were serving wine. I thought I need KR here as she would love it! 8:45 fellowship would change if we did that!
JD loved all the bridges and boats. She kept asking me what they were for so I had some fun making-up things besides repeating over and over, "that's how they get around." I can't recall when they put railings across the bridges, but I can't imagine the number of people who fell in before they were put up.
We found a lovely piazza to have lunch in away from all the crowds. It was such a beautiful crisp fall day we chose to eat outside. What is so terrific about Venice, you don't realize initially, is that there are no cars! It is quiet b/c of this and there is no dodging traffic, just people. Our lunch wasn't spectacular, but the setting was terrific and our waiter was funny. The guy next to us had a fish for lunch, and they brought it out whole. JD watched the process when she saw the fish being rolled to the table. The waiter whacked off the fishes head, put it on a spatula and playfully pretended to throw it at JD. Then he whacked off the tail and did it again. JD screamed and laughed. Then he gutted the fish. Her eyes were big now and we had to tell her not to watch the guy eat it b/c her mouth was still hanging open. She also loved the potty. No squatter this time, much to her dismay. This one had the plastic on the seat where you push a button and it just goes around and around and around. Well, we almost stayed there all day watching a toilet seat in Venice.
Of course, when we finished lunch, JD had to find gelato. And what do you know, there was a gelatria around the corner with a big ice cream cone in front. She picked Vanilla. YEAH (not hard to clean out of clothes). There was a scrumptious bakery across the street. I gained 5 lbs. just smelling the cookies.
We wandered some more and eventually found the Grand Canal. I couldn't believe the size of the gondolas. I just always thought they were small, but they are huge. The strength to operate them is incredible. It was absolutely fascinating to watch.
The crowds got big again and we were jostled around going to San Marco Square. I wasn't too impressed with it, but it was maybe b/c the crowds were so large and it's dirty, but I could look past it and see the beauty of Venice. JD loved the pigeons. They were jumping all over her including her back, and she just thought that was the funniest thing.
After being poked and prodded enough we walked over to the vaporetto station and jumped on #1, like the guidebooks recommend, to head to the train station. Michael looked and me and said, "Uh, the max occupancy is 215 and there are way more people on this boat than that!!!" as we were being squeezed to the side. Luckily, we ended up standing on the outside of the boat for the 40 minute boat ride back. It was a lovely boat ride back to the station.
We can't wait to go back sans a stroller and explore more of Venice. It is a charming city with many nooks and crannies, right in our backyard plus it was only an 8 E roundtrip ticket!
Guess who was on our train again? The boys with the white pants! What better date for a Sunday afternoon than Venice?
Tuesday, 9 October 2007
Get Well Soon Grandma!
Turn up the volume on the computer
Thursday, 4 October 2007
video link - October
Wednesday, 3 October 2007
video
Jacqueline showing her favorite sign at the lake.
I drive through this town regularly - Castello d'Aviano. Beautiful.Our town and the mountains again, but in video.
October 3rd
Monday, 1 October 2007
Rough week
The next evening we received the most unfortunate news that one of Michael's stellar paralegals husband was killed while riding a motorcycle. He was doing everything right and someone ran a stop sign. Please keep her in your prayers and their two young kids - 2.5 and 8 months. She's doing a good job of putting one foot in front of the other right now.
Monday, 24 September 2007
The week
Due to that, we've been walking around our town at night (I'm pushing our stroller). Our town isn't flat by any stretch of the imagination and the streets are very narrow so it is truly an adventure to walk around. Thankfully, my stroller is orange! The little ladies of the town love the girls - they fawn all over them (at least I think it is that since I don't speak Italian). I did have one man yell at me for not holding JD's hand when we were walking - I think. The past couple of times we've gone to the cemetery (how this started I don't know). JD is now very interested in dead people. GREAT. At least this has gotten us talking about the subject. The cemetery is very beautiful here - electric candles on all the graves and beautiful statutes. It also sits on a hill so last night JD and I watched the lights sparkle in Vigonovo.
I love the ladies here - you rarely see them in pants and they usually have their aprons over their dresses. I can't believe the number of times this week I have seen my other "Italian image:" people do talk to each other through their windows! They will lean their bicycle up against the house and the person in their house has their head out the window chatting or yelling.
Michael's car of his days before marriage is truly getting banged around. I backed into the gate in our driveway before it was fully open and then this weekend, I went to the laundromat on base and hit the very low curb (didn't know it until I pulled out). The header on the bumber completely came off. Just terrific. I just went there so the towels wouldn't be crunchy (this is how they are when you dry them outside).
JD was sick this weekend so nothing fun or exciting. We at least found a use for the bidet other than it's true use.
Sunday, 16 September 2007
The week
Friday, 14 September 2007
pictures of Jacqueline's 1st day at the Asilo
Her teacher Maestra Marzia. Love her. She and I are finding ways to communicate. She knows more English than she lets on - learned through the movies she told me today. I let her know I was starting lessons next month! The nuns just prattle on to me like I know Italian even though the know I don't.
The video is of "the swing." I knew she would love it, and I can't get her off! Today she was excited b/c she got to sit in the front seat. There are some wierd blips in the video. She held her own against a boy who wanted her seat and thought he could bully her off. She did almost fall off shortly after the video, but she's got the hang of it now. Today she had me get on - yeah. My big butt, from all the pasta, wouldn't fit. No surprise there.
Tuesday, 11 September 2007
september 11th
Friday, 7 September 2007
Thursday, 6 September 2007
September 6, 2007
Well, we have two cars (but the license plate doesn't fit on the Tahoe so we aren't driving it yet)
On Sunday morning we got up early to go to the train station in Pordonene. The night before we decided to take a test run since we hadn't driven to the train station previously. For some reason, we decided to use the nav the next morning and it got us lost and we just made it on the train. We later discovered that I had progrommed in the wrong train station. yes, it was loads of fun trying to figure out where the train station was at 6:30 in the morning.
JD loved the train for about the first thirty minutes. We played a lot of "I spy" and watched some dvd's It was only a four hour trip to Florence - when you are from Texas - four hours is a short trip.
When we first got to the train station, I was thinking, "This is Florence?" Not impressed as I had heard so much about it. It was a comedy walking on the cobblestone streets with our car seats and luggage. I know we would have been on some show! The hotel was great and near the market. I bought a couple of beautiful scarves which will serve me well now with the change in the weather!!!
We went to a church near the hotel that was started in 383. Wow. Still wasn't charmed by Florence, but the artwork in the church was incredible.
We then just headed out walking (again another challenge since we couldn't bring the stroller and the car seats and luggage). We turned one corner and then, I understood, my breath was just taken away by Florence. I wish I could characterize it better, but it is just so old and buildings are fabulous. We didn't do any museums, but we will do that on our next trip. It is fun traveling with our girls b/c people automatically gravitate to us. They want to make Julia laugh and touch JD's curly blonde hair. People also can't believe Julia's name since it is popular here (and we live in the Giulia region of Italy- we must have known when we named her that we were coming her).
Okay, so the next morning we are on the train to Livorno to pick up the car. The Italians do not believe in lines so it was a challenge to get a cab at the train station. You have to be quite agressive. Our terrific cab driver found the warehouse at the port. When we got upstairs, they said so sorry the paperwork isn't done and it won't be done till tomorrow. yeah. Great w/ two small children in tow. My "type A" came out as politelly as possible- uh, you told us last week it was a go and come pick it up - what happened between then and now? Sorry - it wasn't done - just big talk.
We just sat in the office and let jacqueline color (I thought if we sat there maybe the paperwork would be magically done, but as they love kids, it really didn't matter). We then went downstairs for lunch as all offices close from 12:30-2:30. JD needed a nap so we had her sleep outside their office on the cold tile floor (again me thinking sympathy). They all came back at 2:30 and 5 minutes later the paperwork was magically done! They even drove us in this tiny little red car to the place where the Tahoe was. I guess a little wine and a nap during reposo worked!
We discovered on the fourish hour drive home that we cannot drive 80 mph on the autostrada when it is so windy. The wheels seem to actually lift off the pavement. Tuscany is magical. I saw some paitings in Florence and wondered if it would really look like that - the sunflowers and Italian cypress. I can tell you - it does. I actually saw some of the landscape depicted in the pictures.
Another interesting thing that you would never see in the states was a chapel at the rest stop. We said some prayers for safe travel and patience with small children in the car (and gratefulness for having the car).
"Life is either a daring adventure or nothing." Helen Keller
Friday, 31 August 2007
Pictures
The picture on the right is our balcony and looking back into town. We are looking forward to dining al fresco! Our neighbors are always eating dinner outside. The mosquitos are a bit troublesome, but we are working on that!
Thursday, 30 August 2007
August 30th
Today I saw a nun riding a bicycle. I have only seen this in pictures, but to actually see it... I just laughed.
Michael and I are going to recommend that anyone who PCSs' here has to have at least $2000 saved up (really more than that b/c our car insurance is 5x as much as it was in the states). We are going to pick-up our second car so a lady told us to bring $500 Euros to pay people off at the port (this is a reliable source). GRRRRREAT. We had to pay the road tax at the post office today as it also functions as the town bank. It is not cheap and then, to top it off, they charge you a 1Euro "service fee." I just thought - I paid $500 for my car and then you charge me a dollar as a service fee? GOOD GRIEF. I can't even remember how many other things we have to pay for... At this point we just shell it over.
I'm trying to figure out the washer - still not sure if I am doing it right. I am not using the dryer since everyone tells me our electricity will go out so I am doing as the Italians do and drying my clothes outside.
OOh I forgot to say on Saturday morning one of the very sweet wives in the office took me out to show me around. I could get in trouble here. We went to the COOP in Pordenone (the closest big town). It is the grocery store and it is just wonderful. Every kind of cheese you could imagine. It is like a glorfied Super Walmart b/c it also has clothes etc. Then we went to a couple of houseware stores. One was like Ikea, but a little bit more pricey. Loved it.
Yesterday, Jacqueline and I amused ourselves by watching a tractor plow our neighbors yard. I saw it come in to Henrico's w/ two younger boys on it. They had a plow initially attached to it and the two boys differed on how things needed to be done - it was funny watching them yell at each other. I went in, got a beer, came back out to watch. I don't know how long this went on, then they got another attachment and continued to plow about 3x back and forth in no particular pattern and just left. I just scratched my head in complete confusion.
It is fun getting use to the night routine. We hear the bells chime, the clinking of plates and glasses being cleaned and then night falls. With the darkness, we start to hear all of the shutters closing. It is like having a warm blanket pulled on top of you. You just settle in and sigh.
Monday, 27 August 2007
august 27th
This weekend we went up to Lake Barcis. It was sooo beautiful. Emerald green in color and oh so clear and cold. JD really wanted to go swimming, but I stuck my toe in and screamed. Ice cubes, I swear, it was stocked with ice cubes. Plus, I would only have about 3 big boulders to stand on then I was over my head. I don't think balancing on a rock with a three year old who thinks she is a mermaid would have been a good idea. We got her an ice cream instead.
One of the three tunnels we had to take was 4000 meters long.
We had our first successful party last night. The office was invited to come over for gelato. I forgot to look up the word "box" before I left for the gelato shop so I had to do a lot of pointing to order it. I thought, no furniture, good excuse for a party.
See, everything comes down to gelato.
Friday, 24 August 2007
august 24th
I did accomplish quite a bit yesterday. I had to go p/u our decoder so we can get tv through the Armed Forces Network. We get 5-7 channels for free - but there are military empowerment commericals instead of "our" commercials. I won't miss all the ads for the elections - The directions were to a white building w/ a white cement fence in the industrial park in the city of Aviano. Well, I get to the industrial park and ALL the buildings are white w/ a white fence. Thank goodness we just bought a GPS. I didn't have the address just the street so I had to figure it out by the process of elimination. I did it though!!
We can see the lights of the city below from our balcony. I think its the town of Sacile, which has canals running through it.
Today I did venture into Dardago during the day. I strolled up the street and the little market on the square was open. I bought a few postcards of Dardago and an ice tea. I have become completely addicted to their peach ice tea. They had gelato and ice cream cakes, bread and numerous magazines. I can't figure out when they are open yet. I will sign up next week for my Italian classes so I can figure it out as well as figure out what my neigbors are saying to me. I know all their dogs names, but little else.
Pretty much everything closes from 12:30-3 including the businesses in the surrounding towns. That is the life, isn't it? Wake up, have your cafe, work hard, take a nap and eat lunch, work some more, stroll around your town, eat some delicious food and drink some wine (and drink a scorpino - not sure about the spelling, but it is lemon sorbet mixed with vodka) then go to bed.
I think I can do that every day for a few years. Come for a visit and you can do it too!
Thursday, 23 August 2007
August 23rd
I feel like a true Italian now. I met "the squatter." What is it you ask? a toilet in the floor. I totally wish I was kidding. We were in a nice restaurant too!! It is completely surrounded by beautiful porcelain. There is some strategy for meeting the squatter too, which we were briefed on last week in a spouses training session (didn't think it would include going to the bathroom). All I could think of was wait till Jacqueline meets "the squatter." Thankfully, after my meeting, I ate gelato. All was better then.
As we were leaving I saw an older woman peddling her bike with her dog in the basket. This is pure Italy.
Julia is signing "more" with gusto. She loves Italian food. She should be crawling soon, but I hope it waits till our furniture comes so I can have some rugs down. We do have beautiful tile floors. One of Michael's office mates has all marble floors in his house, which are just beautiful.
We think we'll have more than five pieces of furniture by the end of September. But the good news is that we have HOT WATER. I got to actually take a shower in the house yesterday. Now, I have no excuse to get out of cooking.
I did pass my driving test. There are no shoulders on the roads in Italy and the bikes share the roads with you. There are many streets I drive on not believing two vehicles can pass. I just can't wait to get the Tahoe!! Also I have to remember to check my mirror before I turn left b/c even if you have your signal on, they will still go around you on the left!!!!
It is my new mantra - "check the mirror and don't worry about the Italian in the Smart Car on your bumper."